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“And we created you in pairs” –Surah Naba, Verse 8 of the Holy Quran
Marriage in Islam is a blessed spiritual bond which is an epitome of respect, mutual understanding and affection between the Muslim couple.
Islam does not discriminate or limit the credibility of a Muslim man or a woman when it comes to their age, culture, personality or their current marital status-divorced, unmarried, widow or a widower.
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Why is marriage a contract in Islam?
Let us get a clear picture about the concept of marriage in Islam and remove (or even sweep aside) the clutter and confusion regarding polygamy, divorce, qula ,nikah halala as presented by numerous unauthentic sources on the Internet which shout injustice and wrong practices without understanding the deeper knowledge of the Holy Quran and the Sunnah of the Holy Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
According to Islam ,muslim matrimony is not considered to be ‘made in heaven’ between ‘soul-mates’ destined for each other; they are not sacraments. They are social contracts which bring rights and obligations to both parties, and can only be successful when these are mutually respected and cherished.
If and when such contracts are broken, either party is entitled to seek divorce. It is not assumed that a couple will remain together ’till death do us part’.
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So, many might think why such a life-changing decision of muslim matrimony is taken so lightly in Islam and termed as a “contract” between the Muslim couple ?
This is because the Creator of the Universe, Allah SWT created us humans of varied forms, natures, personalities ,cultures and attributes.
No two people are the same and considering that even conjoined twins have a personality of their own, how can we expect a man and a woman to have the same or even similar thought process, upbringing style and environment ?
If they agree to marry, they can with all respect and consent continue their marriage till death in peace …
But, if they cannot continue together for more than a month, then do you think they can drag their “till death do us apart” marriage till “eternity”?
Would it not be foolishness to continue living with each other in mental and psychological pain or even abuse of any sort ?
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The justification by the Al-Hakam
If we read the newsfeeds everyday, we may come across regular cases of domestic violence, suicide, female infanticide, sexual abuse in marriage, marital rape, forced prostitution by life partners and even worse …
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So, why do you think such cases are occurring on a regular basis since time immemorial ?
Could not the people who were victims of the above mentioned tragedies of their marital life have escaped it if they knew that their life partner was not right for them?
Should they have been stuck in their marriage forever since the society would question their divorce due to their “petty issues” ?
This takes us back to point number 1 …
Islam is realistic, and aware that many muslim marriages can go wrong and break down for all sorts of reasons.
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It is a religion which gives every believing Muslim to lead a happy life according to their will and happiness , but following the rules of the Shariah so that they do not exceed their limits and misuse their rights in Islam.
Every aspect of Islam is so beautifully balanced and explained that you could never have thought of a better solution for it , ever !
And you can never thank the Giver of Justice , The Arbitrator (Allah SWT )enough for having given you that second chance and for emptying your life again to only fill it with a better partner who you really deserve.
He is the Knower of the Unseen and we need to be patient , strong and increase our Iman to understand the reason behind the trials of life.
Every Muslim deserves a second chance, a second Islamic marriage , remarriage and the right of marriage if they are already post 30 !
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